Three Dependable Ways To Building Self-Confidence (Part 3/3)

Challenge yourself

  1. You’re going to be okay
  2. The more you push yourself, the more your confidence.
  • “But what if they laugh at me?”
  • “Oh my god, they’re going to mock me all my life!”
  • “Good God, that would be so embarrassing. I’d rather die!”
  • “But what if I fail?”

Get out of your Comfort Zone

  • Predictable.
  • Secure and free of any risk, meaning you don’t fear losing anything.
  • Comfortable even though it brings so many problems.

Build Discipline

  • It trains your mind to remember you’re worth showing up for.
  • It helps you learn many skills over time.
  • Even though you show up for a few minutes, you’re consistent, which adds up in the end.

Have hobbies

  • Having a 9–5, which seems more like a 7–7 job,
  • Coming home and meal prepping,
  • Studying for her long-distance masters in psychology,
  • Taking care of her dog, Cookie,
  • Doing all the household chores,
  • Maintaining friendships and everything that brings with it,
  • Getting ready for holiday seasons, I mean, the list goes on.
  1. Have a younger, healthier brain. Because you’re challenging it with something new.
  2. Build something beautiful. Whatever your hobby, working on a task consistently helps your creative energy flow.
  3. Release stress. As stress builds up in life, you need to open a vent or two to let the steam escape. What hobbies help you relax?
  4. Feel more fulfilled and accomplished as you’re busy investing in yourself and things that bring you joy.
  5. Grow in life. Hobbies help you challenge yourself and give you a safe space to remind yourself that you’re worth it.

In the End

  1. Amber’s Story
  2. Amber’s shift in mindset to confidence
  3. Amber’s tested tools to building confidence Part 1
  4. Amber’s tested tools to building confidence Part 2
  5. Amber’s tested tools to building confidence Part 3

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Risha Bharathan

Risha Bharathan

My copywriting skills can help you seamlessly integrate stories (heart) with today’s digital marketing best practices (head). A unique mix that Google adores.